Jun 29, 2017 · Both must do so of their own volition or they cannot remarry. In Australia, an Orthodox Jewish man sued recently in a secular court to force his wife to receive his get. The couple had gotten a civil divorce after 15 years of marriage, but the wife was refusing to come to Sydney’s Jewish religious court, or beit din, to complete the religious ... People don’t like their sin pointed out to them. I know I don’t. And it is easy to get defensive and tell people to mind their own business. But if we are failing to be salt and light in the world, then we are supposed to be held to higher standards, and sometimes this means people will point out to us our failures.
Sending a letter to formally request your items should show that you are serious, and if he still does not send your stuff to you, then the letter will show that you tried to contact him officially on this issue. You mentioned that you would be involving an officer, so you could also visit a station to ask for more information.